Does he love me, does he love me not?
Do you miss your ex and want him back? Did he end things, but still loves to spend time with you, talk to you, or shows he still cares? Are you confused?
Well, fear not! Traces of desire and love are often left behind after a relationship ends and can be easily recognized. Here are a few key gestures that should tell you, that maybe, just maybe, there is a rendezvous on the cards.
7 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back
Sign #1 – He makes an effort to keep in contact with you
As long as your ex is second-guessing their choice to leave you, they will try to keep in touch.
Did your ex contact you first? Is he the one to initiate contact with you, especially if it is about a lame reason?
If you call, will he try to keep the conversation going longer than it needs to be? These are all GREAT SIGNS!
How often your ex contacts you is a sign of how much they actually want to be with you again and a strong signal they are not sure they made the right decision in leaving you.
Also, how they make contact plays a part too. Texting, email, social media is the quickest and easiest way they can keep you in their life.
A phone call from your ex is a very up-front way to communicate (a great sign) and of course, meeting up in person is always the best! Seeing you may just be the very thing that proves they want you back!
Sign #2 – He gives off “hot and cold” behaviour
Sometimes he is really warm, nice and caring around you. Other times, the complete opposite – he may be in a bad mood, cold or slightly rude.
Confused much??? Often either can be a good sign!
This unsettled behaviour may indicate he has unresolved feelings towards you, he may still be working through his feelings or simply he is not over you. Because if he was, he wouldn’t be having such crazy behaviour swings towards you!
Sign #3 – He wants to remain friends with you
If your ex wants to remain friends with you, it may be a very strong indication he wants you back!
Often it can mean he still feels a strong connection to you, he trusts you, he still gets along with you and feels comfortable in your company. If he is happy to be around you, then its only a very small step he would need to take to be in a relationship with you.
Men don’t waste their time being friends with women who annoy them, cause drama or stress them out. The fact that he still wants to be your friend and spend quality time together, simply means he is happy when he is with you.
Sign #4 – He flirts with you
This all comes down to chemistry.
If you still have chemistry together, on an emotional and physical level, then this is a really good sign.
Not only does your ex want to be friends, but he also stills feels a deeper connection with you on a sexual or physical level.
An emotional safe-zone exists.
If he still feels this chemistry, it removes a level of uncertainty in his mind, making it easier for him to re-establish a relationship with you or may indicate your ex-boyfriend still loves you.
Sign #5 – He tries to keep tabs with you
… but not in a creepy way!
If your ex is truly over you, then he is not going to obsess – he is going to let you go.
But, if he’s showing up at places he knows you will be.
Asking mutual friends about you and in particular about your love life.
Or, you catch him cyber-stalking you on Facebook or accidentally liking your Instagram pic, that’s a huge dead giveaway sign he is very much still thinking about you.
He wants to know how you are if your okay and what’s going on in your life. A sign he still cares and wants to be close.
Sign #6 – He is happy to do things for you
When it comes to men if they like someone, they want to be of service to them.
If a man wants to be in a relationship with a woman, then he likes to feel useful and empowered by her.
Why? Be it the biological nature of a male to want and provide.
What’s the reason, it is how men feel validated and also how they express love.
So if you find your guy is still happy to help you out, after you have broken up then it shows he still loves to feel needed by you. He probably gets great enjoyment out of doing a favour for you.
Sign #7 – He still cares about your wellbeing and happiness
When we have feelings for someone we want the best for them.
We wish for them to be healthy and happy.
If your ex is still showing interest in your joy, upsets, frustrations, stresses, how your day has been, what’s happening in your life or the people that you care about; it shows that he is still invested in you and cares about you.
This is a really good sign he feels emotionally safe around you, he wants to share in your life and wants you to be happy. A strong indication he has feelings for you or maybe he is still in love with you.
By the way, if you doubt you still have a chance with your ex, take this short quiz. This quiz will reveal a percentage on your likelihood to get your ex back – even if your situation seems hopeless right now.